Pain

Pain, it isn't yours or mine.. its jus pain….

We all go thru various emotions, hurt, betrayal, pain, anger.. the reasons for same are mostly similar, what we feel is equally similar, but difference lies in the form of our expression.. smone can b reluctant abt his/her own feelings n smone jus too sensitive, or one may think of revenge or at least make that person aware wht it actually means to feel in such situation…

I may ve faced many situations.. but each time I’ve tried to analyse my feelings, why did it hurt so bad.. n why did I not react that way.. wht made me feel so insecure, n wht made me lose my temper… certain emotions are beyond the caste, creed or the places we’ve been living or brought up… I relate to the daughter who lost her father in the air crash far away in Russia.. the same way the daughter whose father was taken away by the cruel tsunami tide…

The pain, the loss.. the helplessness is the same…. The fact that come wht may, I won’t get him back… is the ground reality that I’ve to make peace with…

The more I ve gone thru such situations the more I’ve realised it.. that to understand the loss, the separation one needs to experience it.. coz that’s when u understand the genuine feelings…. Its so true that if one does go thru similar circumstances, one ends up sayin smthg absurd n uncalled for thgs at that time…
for me it was easy to let go.. or jus to forgive ppl.. since I had already assumed or well aware of these kind of ppl.. but yes it did affect my behavior later on, as it made those ppl predictable… making me stronger, calmer..